I have a simple question that I wanna ask.
Are there 'magical' words you can use
to get your ex girlfriend to call you back?
Sounds unbelievable but there ARE words
that will almost cast a spell and make your ex girlfriend
feel almost compelled to return your call.
Awesome ain't it?...
I am going to let you in on this because
it's one of the biggest questions I get
from subscribers just
like you that are trying to put their relationship
back together.
So I am going to answer..."How do I get
my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"
BUT...
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WARNING!
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In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay
out a complete guide to winning back your ex.
How to Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend
If you use this technique alone, without
an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may
damage your relationship more than if
they never called you back.
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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's
go over what message usually NEVER
works.
and even worse...
Puts you in an TERRIBLE 'psychological' position.
These mostly fall into 2 categories.
The BEGGING- Where the message sounds like
"Jessica, please, please call me. This is the 5th
time I have called. I NEED to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Amy, this is an emergency. Please call me
ASAP."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and on...
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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are
*Curiosity &
*Self Interest
And here's the HUGE SECRET!
When you link the two, you
have a formula that WILL work 'magic'
So...
Let's look at what you can say
that works almost EVERY TIME.
In a gentle tone:
"Hi Jessica. It's Adam. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?
Jessica will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does he appreciate?" she will be thinking. And
she feels good because it is a positive message.
Now...
Before you call you should do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be anylittle thing...but should
be plausible.
But more importantly...
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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy
like I lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.
How to Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend
If you do this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it the right way.
Okay?
What I am saying is...
What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.
Make sense?
